The author editor: | Date:2016-04-13 16:33:50 | Source:
When a place for you to meet new people, and must first be strangers to each other, the other will leave some kind of impression. This is called "first impression" in psychology ". From the first impression is mainly about the other's expression, posture, appearance, clothing, language, eyes and other aspects of the impression. Although it is fragmentary and superficial, it is very important. Because, in the psychological impact of the first impression First impressions are strongest, can often have a key role in human cognition. Study shows that the first 4 minutes of the first meeting, is the key to the formation of the impression.
How to give a good first impression it is fundamentally speaking, it is necessary to improve their level of civilization and self-cultivation, can not be separated from the regular psychological exercise. Psychologists put forward the following several recommendations:
Show confidence and full of youthful spirit spirit
Self confidence is a kind of self identification and self affirmation of people's ability, ability, knowledge quality, character accomplishment, and health condition, appearance and so on. Psychologists point out that if a person walking walking firm, talking with people, decent conversation, speaking God eyes, eyes, face each other and use through eye contact, will give people confidence and reliable, positive feeling.
To be neither humble nor pushy
Not Kang, is not arrogant. Not humble, just don't make up, bow and scrape, insinuating others attitude. The former caused by others, the latter is detrimental to their own personality. In the interview, but not because of the desire to get the job and show the examiner like flattery.
Some people are accustomed to careless about dressing. This is a personal matter, but in a new environment, others do not fully understand you, too casual may cause misunderstanding, resulting in a bad first impression. In fact, the United States has found that a better professional image of people, the initial salary of their work than the image of the people to be higher than the 20% - 8%. , of course, dress presentable does not have to be for clothing brand packaging themselves, but not excessively modified, because it but to give people a coquettish and frivolous impression.
Pay attention to civilized manners
For example, pay attention to the language expression is concise and to the point, don't mess with words; when others speak, do not arbitrarily interrupted; don't ask what he didn't need to know or someone don't want to answer, which will give others a bad impression.
Speak credit, keep time
Anything that promises somebody else's work must be done. He did not grasp things, even the inconvenience to face, talk to leave. In order to please others, obviously impossible things also swept down, will only backfire, causing resentment of others. Credit also comply with the time, regardless of the appointment, not to be late for the meeting. Otherwise, it will give people do not talk about the feeling of credit.
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